THE WOMAN IS LIKE WATER-LILY FLOWER

Still remember when I was a kid, my grandmother told me that a woman be like a water-lily. Since the water-lily is very beautiful and glorious.

Do you know the water-lily? It is a water plant that floats on the pond. Lotus (Nymphaea) is a genus of aquatic plants from Nymphaeaceae. Its Flower are on the surface of the water, have brightly colored petals such as red, yellow, purple and white and have full circle flower. Water-lily is unique, and able to survive in a place that is not feasible and able to remain strong in all odds.

Although there are plenty of fish in the pond and the water surging in the wind, but water-lily still sturdy upright on the water surface. So did women, although many obstacles and temptations, but women must still endure, strong and sturdy in her life .

Although sometimes pool water was dirty and muddy, but water-lily still produce pretty and beauty flower. Flowers are colorful without being influenced by the dirty water pond where the water-lily lives. As well as woman, although she lives in an environment that does not support her and lives in the environment are always blocking her life, but she was still able to maintain the honor, dignity and be able to keep her honor to be holy, pure and beautiful.

The water-lily is also able to deliver oxygen to the environment that the fish in the pond even bother its stems. This shows that women are able to give kindness and affection to the nearest person, such as husband and her children and her extended family. In fact she was able to give kindness to others. Women should be able to share for the good things and she could mean for others.

Everyone needs a sacrifice to take a water-lily flower because it lives in the middle pond and difficult to reach. But it is very attractive and beautiful. So also a woman, she  keep herself and her honor, so that only certain people who can be approached. And, some people who have good intentions that can only be approached and got her.

Sometimes people do not realize the beauty of water-lily in the pond because they only see the fish in the pond. But there is only one who will be able to see the beauty of them. This shows that only a few people realize that this woman is highly meaningful and highly valuable, hard to dispose her and hard to forget her.

Women like the water-lily mean women are sturdy, strong and always maintain her dignity and her honor and be able to share the goodness with the people and the environment. Women are beautiful and graceful with all the beauty and has a respectable attitude in her.

But it's hard to be a woman like a water-lily, sometimes I was also tempted and unable to cope with the environment and momentary pleasures in the world. I am still trying and keeping to be a woman who always maintain the honor and pride and always share kindness to other. So, we will be better in our life.

Wanita Ibarat Bunga Teratai

 Saya masih ingat waktu kecil nenek bilang bahwa jadilah wanita seperti bunga teratai. Karena bunga teratai sangat cantik dan mulia.

Tahukah anda dengan bunga teratai? Teratai adalah tanaman air yang bunganya mengapung di atas kolam. Teratai (Nymphaea) adalah genus untuk tanaman air dari suku Nymphaeaceae (Water-Lily). Bunga terdapat di atas permukaan air, kelopak bersemu merah berwarna, putih hingga kuning dan berbentuk lingkaran penuh. Bunga teratai adalah bunga yang unik, dan mampu bertahan hidup di tempat yang tidak layak dan mampu tetap kuat didalam segala rintangan.

Walaupun di kolam terdapat banyak ikan dan air yang bergelombang ditiup angin, namun bunga teratai tetap tegak kokoh di permukaan air. Begitu juga wanita, walaupun banyak halangan dan godaan serta rintangan, namun wanita harus tetap bertahan, kuat dan kokoh dalam kehidupannya

Walaupun air kolam kadang kotor dan berlumpur namun tetap menghasilkan bunga yang bersih dan sangat cantik. Bunga yang berwarna-warni tanpa terpengaruh oleh kotornya air kolam tempat hidup teratai tersebut. Begitu juga wanita walaupun hidup di dalam lingkungan yang tidak mendukungnya dan lingkungan yang selalu menghalangi kehidupnanya, namun dia tetap mampu menjaga kehormatan, harga diri dan mampu tetap bersih, suci dan cantik.

Bunga teratai juga mampu memberikan oksigen kepada lingkungannya yaitu kepada ikan-ikan yang ada di kolam sekalipun ikan tersebut mengganggu batang bunga teratai tersebut. Hal ini menunjukkan bahwa wanita mampu memberikan kebaikan dan kasih sayangnya kepada orang terdekatnya seperti suami dan anak-anaknya serta keluarga besarnya. Bahkan dia mampu memberikan kebaikan kepada orang lain. Mampu memberikan kehidupan bagi suami dan anak-anaknya. Untuk itu wanita harus mampu berbagi untuk kebaikan sehingga wanita bisa berarti bagi lainnya.

Kadang orang tidak menyadari keindahan teratai dalam kolam, karena mereka hanya focus melihat ikan yang ada dalam kolam. Namun hanya ada seseorang yang nantinya mampu melihat keindahan bunga teratai tersebut di tengah kolam. Hal ini menunjukkan bahwa hanya sedikit orang yang menyadari bahwa wanita ini sangat berarti dan sangat berharga sehingga sulit untuk dilepaskan.

Wanita seperti bunga teratai berarti wanita yang kokoh, kuat dan selalu menjaga harga diri dan kehormatannya serta mampu berbagi kebaikan dengan orang terdekat dan lingkungannya. Wanita yang cantik dan anggun dengan segala keindahan yang ada dalam dirinya dan memiliki sikap terhormat dalam dirinya.

Namun memang sulit untuk menjadi wanita seperti bunga teratai, kadang saya juga tergoda dan tidak mampu untuk menghadapi lingkungan dan cobaan serta kesenangan sesaat yang ada di dunia. Namun tetap berusaha untuk menjadi wanita yang selalu menjaga kehormatan dan harga dirinya.

The Beautiful Woman

Do you know that, every woman is a great. She is a strong and she was able to do anything even though men's work. Woman are beautiful creatures of God. Not only physically seen. It would be nice if beautiful heart. She has a tenderness. The beauty of woman is relative, it's varies for each person who look her. Sometime people see woman in terms of physical and sometime they see woman in terms of the heart or both of them.

Woman are able to think with heart and mind (logic). The woman was able to control her emotions. Woman have a wide heart, maybe that's why God entrusted the baby to the womb of a woman and not to man.

Sometimes, she was weak. She will be weak beside the person that she loved. She will be weak beside the person that she admires. Not because of her spoiled, but because she feels more comfortable and fell protected by them. 

I think, woman is beautiful not because she is sexy, her skin is white, she is tall, she is slim/slender, and other forms of physical beauty. Not because she is fashionable, not because she is able to attract and stimulate the men. Woman is beautiful because of her good moral, modesty, hospitality and friendly, because she was obedient to her husband and her parents. Woman is beautiful because of her heart.

She is not pretty, but she has a beautiful heart, she will look more beautiful than a beautiful woman having a dirty heart. Woman should be able to maintain her honor. They should be able to keep herself for her husband. A good woman is a woman who does not open her private parts of her body to be sew by the other. She just shows it to her husband. So, she will be safe and she will be far away from danger.

Anything else, woman can be toxic in the world. Because of her attitude, weak woman can cheat for her personal pleasure.

Oh God, it’s not me and not you too.

However, actually, behind the success and greatness of a man, there is a great and brilliance woman beside them, as a loyal spouse and as a loving mother.

Which lady / woman are you ... a beautiful woman with dirty heart or a woman with unusual beauty with beautiful heart. Or beautiful woman with beautiful heart or not of them or woman who obedient to her husband and the woman has good heart towards other.

“The World is jewelry and the best jewelry is the good woman”.

I think, sexy woman is not open her private parts of her body to the other ,but sexy woman is having smart, brilliance, beautiful heart, kind heart and good personality.

and how about you???