LOVE AND HATE

In our lives there is a sense of love and hate. Love and hate are two opposites thing. Love and hate feeling likes and dislikes, feeling wants and not wants. Love will come when what expected to happen and they are ready to risk anything happening. While hatred came at what was expected did not happen and we will try to reply and wreak this hatred.

Love and hate are not always hand in hand, sometimes begins with a sense of love and end up with hatred, or sometimes begins with a sense of hate and will end up with love. Between love and hate, surely we are all hoping to love. But some people say that because hatred is love appears.

Love and hate not only against their fellow human beings, but it can be attended in various ways, for example to other living things, position in office or any other matter. For love we are willing to do anything to get it because our love can survive. Hate makes people capable of doing a thing that is not fair to excite a sense of hatred.

For whom love and hate we give so that there are no mistakes in implementation? Love and hate can we apply for all things for God. We can love something and hate it because God does not like it. If we love someone because of God, it is better and show our faith in God. Maybe me, you or anyone else ever loved someone, but try to think again, try to get positive thinking from it. We think that if it believed absolutely in love for God or just a desire that one day will be lost. How wonderful if they love something for God. Me, you and the others must have sinned and wrong in expressing love for something, without our knowing it, it's just passion and emotion to get the thrill of the moment.

Love can be worship, which is the foundation of our faith in God. Love that shirk is loving than God or exceed his love for God. Love that vice is love that violate prohibitions God and left all the commandments of God. Love that is a character or attitude of the love that everyone cannot be separated from it, such as love for food, drinks, marriage, clothing, family, wife, husband, children and so on.

Yes that is the love and hatred. But we have to know and understand what love and hate it. Now, we can start with love even end up with hatred. But we always hope no hatred in our hearts. Unless we hate it because God hates it. We begin with love to God and forget love is passion and emotional to get the thrill of the moment.

CINTA DAN BENCI

  

Didalam kehidupan kita ada rasa cinta dan benci. Cinta dan benci adalah dua hal yang bertolak belakang. Rasa cinta dan benci ibarat perasaan yang disukai dan tidak disukai, perasaan yang diinginkan dan yang tidak dinginkan. Cinta akan datang disaat apa yang diharapkan terjadi dan mereka siap dengan resiko apapun yang terjadi. Sedangkan rasa benci datang disaat apa yang diharapkan tidak terjadi dan kita akan berusaha untuk membalas dan meluapkan rasa benci ini.

Rasa cinta dan benci tidak selalu beriringan, kadang berawal dari adanya rasa cinta dan berakhir dengan rasa benci, atau kadang berawal dari adanya rasa benci dan akan berakhir dengan rasa cinta. Diantara cinta dan benci, pasti kita semua mengharapkan adanya rasa cinta. Namun ada yang bilang bahwa karena benci lah rasa cinta muncul.

Rasa cinta dan benci bukan hanya ditujukan kepada sesama manusia, namun dapat ditujukan pada berbagai hal, misalnya kepada makhluk hidup lainnya, kepada pekerjaan, jabatan atau pun hal lain. Karena cinta kita rela melakukan apa saja untuk mendapatkannya. Karena cinta kita mampu bertahan disampingnya. Lain halnya dengan benci. Benci membuat orang mampu melakukan hal-hal yang tidak wajar demi meluapkan rasa kebenciannya.

Untuk siapakah rasa cinta dan benci kita berikan agar tidak salah dalam penerapannya? Cinta dan benci dapat kita terapkan untuk semua hal karena Tuhan. Kita dapat mencintai sesuatu hal karena Tuhan dan membencinya karena Tuhan tidak menyukainya. Jika kita mencintai seseorang karena Tuhan, hal ini lebih baik dan menunjukkan keimanan kita kepada Tuhan. Mungkin saya, Anda atau siapa saja pernah mencintai seseorang, tapi coba telaah lagi, coba yakini lagi apakah itu benar-benar cinta karena Allah ataukah hanya sebuah nafsu yang suatu saat akan hilang. Alangkah indahnya jika mencintai sesuatu hal karena Tuhan. Saya, Anda dan yang lainnya pasti pernah berbuat dosa dan salah dalam menyatakan cinta kepada sesuatu hal yang tanpa kita ketahui hal itu hanyalah suatu nafsu dan emosi sesaat untuk mendapatkan kesenangan sesaat.

Cinta ada beberapa bagian, diantaranya cinta yang bersifat ibadah yang merupakan landasan iman dan tauhid kita. Cinta yang syirik yaitu mencintai selain Tuhan atau melebihi kecintaannya kepada Allah. Cinta yang maksiat yaitu cinta yang melanggar larangan-larangan Tuhan dan meninggalkan segala perintahNya. Cinta yang merupakan tabiat yaitu cinta yang setiap orang tidak lepas darinya seperti cinta kepada makanan, minuman, pernikahan, pakaian, keluarga, istri, suami, anak dan sebagainya.

Ya itulah rasa cinta, disamping hal ada rasa benci yang sangat bertolak belakang dengan rasa cinta. Namun kita harus mengerti dan memahami apa rasa benci dan cinta itu, mulai sekarang kita mulailah dengan rasa cinta walaupun berakhir dengan rasa benci, namun kita selalu berharap rasa benci tidak ada dalam hati kita. Kecuali benci karena Tuhan benci akan hal tersebut. Kita mulai dengan rasa cinta kepada Tuhan dan melupakan rasa cinta karena nafsu dan emosi untuk kesenangan sesaat.

When I Fall In Love

I got this poetry when I got study in Bachelor degree...

Let's enjoy this Islamic Love Poetry..

When I Fall in Love

Oo Allah, if I fall in love,

keep my love for him

not exceed my love for You

Oo Allah, if I fall in love,

let me touch his heart

whose heart is linked to You

so I do not fall into forbidden love

Oo Allah, if I fall in love

keep my heart for him

and do not turn away from Your heart

Oo Allah, if I missed him

Keep my longing into him

so I will not be remiss to get Your heaven

Oo Allah, if I enjoy the love of Your sweetheart

Do not exceed the pleasure to bow down and pray to You

In the last third of the night

Oo Allah, if I enjoy the love of Your sweetheart

Do not let me fall in long journey to calls human beings to You

Oo Allah, if You let me miss Your sweetheart

Do not let me go exceed the limits

So that make me forget You

True love and eternal longing only to You

Oo Allah, You know that the heart have come together in love with You

That the heart have meet obedient into You

That the heart have united into You

That the heart have been combined in defending into You

Oo Allah, strengthen my relationship with him

Make this love strong for him

Guide him into Your way

Fill his heart with your light that never fade

Relieve our heart with faith and beautiful surrender into Your way

In Bahasa

Ketika Saya Jatuh Cinta

Ya Allah, jika aku jatuh cinta

Jagalah cintaku padanya agar tidak

melebihi cintaku pada-Mu

Ya Allah, jika aku jatuh hati,

Izinkanlah aku menyentuh hati seseorang

yang hatinya tertaut pada-Mu

Agar tidak terjatuh aku ke dalam jurang cinta terlarang

Ya Rabbana, jika aku jatuh hati

Jagalah hatiku padanya agar tidak

berpaling dari hati-Mu

Ya Rabbul Izzati, jika aku rindu

Rindukanlah aku pada seseorang yang

merindui syahid di jalan-Mu

Ya Allah jika aku rindu,

Jagalah rinduku padanya agar tidak lalai aku

merindukan syurga-Mu

Ya Allah, jika aku menikmati cinta kekasih-Mu

Janganlah kenikmatan itu melebihi kenikmatan

Indahnya bermunajat disepertiga malam terakhirmu

Ya Allah jika aku jatih hati pada kekasih-Mu

Jangan biarkan aku tertatih dan terjatuh dalam 

perjalanan panjang menyeru manusia kepada-Mu

Ya Allah, jika Kau halalkan aku merindui kekasih-Mu

Jangan biarkan aku melampaui batas sehingga melupakan aku

pada cinta hakiki dan rindu abadi hanya kepada-Mu

Ya Allah Engkau mengetahui bahwa hati-hati ini

Telah berhimpun cinta pada-Mu

Telah berjumpa taat pada-Mu

Telah bersatu dalam dakwah-Mu

Telah berpadu dalam membela syariat-Mu

Kukuhkanlah Ya Allah ikatannya

Kekalkanlah cintanya

Tunjukilah jalan-jalannya

Penuhilah hati-hatinya

Dengan Nur-Mu yang tidak pernah pudar

Lapangkanlah dada-dada kami dengan limpahan keimanan kepada-Mu

Dan keindahan bertawakkal dijalan-Mu

Heart with Love

"God create us with the heart", that I got quote from my friend. We have a mind and heart, that excess are given by God for us. Mind to think and heart to organize our thought. The life can be affected by peace of heart and mind greatly. People who have a heart will be able to appreciate, honor, cherish and share with others.

Heart can deliver a feeling of love and admiration for something. Heart can cause a sense of satisfaction or dissatisfaction. Heart can give love and hate feelings, sad and happy. The mood can change according to what happening. If we feel satisfaction to something so our hearts feel good. But otherwise if we feel not satisfied to something then our heart will feel sad or even hate toward it. 

The heart can lead to feelings of love. Love is a thin line between passion and sincerity. Usually love because of the admiration, love starts from the physical and outward appearance. So many people are deceived by love. Love can be felt by everyone who has a heart. They have hearts so that they will not hurt each other. They will care about the surroundings.

Love can be given to anyone and anything. Love to parents, love to husband, love to family and the love to friends. But the very essence of love is the love of God. As we know that love for human beings is appearance of love. That love can exist and can be lost. If the people who we love are apostate, so we feel the pain of heart and a feeling of love will be lost. Sometimes love to humans is lust. But it will be a good love if our love is base on love for God.

Feelings of love creates a feeling of longing to them, feeling happy, cheerful, and always want to be with them everytimes. Feelings of love can give passion in life. Because people who loved are loved by them too. But because of love can make hatred, hurt and no passion in life. This happens because of the betrayal in love.Humans have feelings of love, then anyone would be able to love and be loved. There is no prohibition in love, because love is a gift to all human. 

People who are in love is very difficult to express his feelings. Because there is a fear to not accepted, fear to hate, or fear that she will leave him. Feelings of love can be given to anyone. Do not let bury love for someone, even if it is impossible. Love does not have to have each other. Sincere love for her is enough. Love should be expressed directly even though it was painful because the way did not allow.

As we know that feeling of love is only to our partner. But the feeling of love can be given to anyone and anything. With the love we will always try to keep it. With the love we will always try to provide the best for her. Although we can not have her. And never cover up feelings of love.

For me, the feeling of love is the gift from God's that is priceless. There is a sense of love cause of peace and harmony in the life. Then how lucky they are, who made the heart has a love. Because we live in the presence of love, at least love to God, love to parents who always give us the best for everyething. And never bury of Love, although it is impossible and be hurt. But believe in God for everythings can happen.

And Thank for All that who had give love for me...

FRIENDS...

Friend ...

I have many friends in my life and my heart. Friend is one who knows us completely. Understand our situation and understand our shortcomings. Friend is a person who always support us when we are sad or happy, pain or difficulty, shortage or excess. Friend is a person who always loves us as we are. Friend are always besides us when we need or not.

Friends are always giving us the support and motivation. Friend is one who knows our situation completely. Friend are always beside us when we go forward, healthy and happy. And also will never abandon us when falling, pain or difficulty. He will always accompany us and always give us support to rise from adversity.

Friend is a person to make a share about life, love, and everything so we can life better than before. Friend is a person who always reminded us always to do good. Friend is a person who always reminded us not to do worst. He always forgive our mistakes if we err. Friend always understood our condition and accept us as we are.

Friend is a person who would never hurt us. Friend will never force something that does not wanted by us. But friend provides guidance and support. Friends are always guarded her chastity, always keeping friendship sincerity.

To me a friend is someone who is always there for me any time. He always kept friendly relations. Not easily offended if his friend made a mistake and an oversight. We always maintain harmonious relationships. We will not take advantage of each others for a self-interest. Friends are always doing everything with sincerity. I'm as a friend always promised to be sincere do everything to support my friend.

Friends are everything in my life to me. Friends are always close even though physically far away but close to hearts.

To all my friends, do not ever leave or terminate our friendship. While your friend is making a mistake. To me forgiveness is more better than the left.

To my friends who may have hurt by me. Forgive me as your friend's. Since there is no intention for it.

Keep always our relationship and always be together to share the good every where, every time and every day.

Thank you to all my friends. Because of you I find it is more meaningful to life.

I love you sincerely